An Ambassador of Family Life

Tracey Yeo speaks to a legal practitioner who not only supports but actively promotes family life amongst her staff members

Ellen Lee is a dedicated family life ambassador — not just in her role as a family law practitioner, but in her role as an employer. 

This active family advocate’s legal firm, Ellen Lee & Co, was amongst 137 individuals and organisations appointed as Family Life Ambassadors (FLAs) by Mr Abdullah Tarmugi, Minister of Community Development and Sports, at the launch of the FLA Programme on 12 October 2000. 

The FLA programme is an initiative targeted at both employers and employees and aims to impart family life skills, especially to working adults who have to cope with busy working schedules. 

FLAs agree to encourage family friendly work practices in the workplace to help staff to balance work and family responsibilities. They provide at least 12 hours of family life education for their staff yearly and give the Ministry of Community Development and Sports annual updates of their progress in activities, such as encouraging the discussion of family life in the workplace, organising ‘family day’ outings for staff and sponsoring attendance in family life programmes.  

To fulfill her role as an FLA, Ellen actively encourages and sponsors her staff’s participation in the family life education conferences and seminars organised by the Ministry of Community Development and Sports. She regularly disseminates family life education materials to her staff to promote greater awareness of family life. 

Ellen’s law firm is open five days a week, to ensure that its members have adequate leisure time with their families, and employees are not encouraged to work overly long hours. ‘I would rather have fresh, relaxed staff, ready for the challenges of the next day, than exhausted staff who drag themselves to the office grudgingly,’ declares Ellen. 

‘We try our best to be a family, working for the common good of everybody,’ says Ellen of her five-member firm. ‘When someone is away, others will co-operate to help to perform his tasks; we promote a culture of tolerance and do not have rigid work scopes.’ 

Ellen’s staff members also get together during office luncheons, celebrate staff birthdays and even invite alumni of the firm to join them at gatherings. ‘Some of my staff are also trying to arrange social gatherings for a single colleague, to introduce a potential marriage partner discreetly to her,’ she said with a smile.   

Added Ellen, ‘We are also flexible about leave for staff who require time to deal with urgent family situations such as child care arrangements and are closed throughout the Christmas and New Year season, so that staff can schedule vacations during their children’s school vacation, without any work anxieties.’ 

The increased awareness of how important family life is has improved client service in Ellen’s family law practice. ‘My staff are more sensitive to clients’ needs and difficulties and  the importance of  providing the “soft touch” and have become more willing to lend a listening ear and offer a friendly word to troubled clients. We try to be a firm with a heart.’ 

In conclusion, Ellen advises, ‘An employee will be happy when his family’s welfare has been taken care of and he can have peace of mind at work. A happy employee is a productive employee who can, ultimately, contribute more to the workplace.’  


Tracey Yeo
Director, Media & Publications
The Law Society of Singapore